Monday, July 7, 2014

30 is not the new 20. Hear me out.

30 is not the new 20, she said, quickly catching my attention. Hardly, I thought. 30 is most definitely the new 20. This girl was obviously misinformed. Then she said again - 30 is not the new 20

At this point, my near 27-year-old self was just about to jump out of my seat. She couldn't be right? Right?! I mean, I can't pin point the exact date, but I'm fairly certain that 30 has been the new 20 for several years. 

She had my attention. 

Meg Jay, clinical psychologist, is preaching otherwise about our theory on good ole 30-year-olds, and I was having an internal clash of emotions just on the title of her TED talk. But while viewing this 14-minute video, it clicked - she's right! You must watch this, whether you're a 20 something or 30 something. Hear me - and Meg - out on this. 



Meg informs us that claiming your 20's is one of the simplest yet most transformative things you can do for your work, love for your overall happiness. To top it off she rattles off research to back this up. 

The theory of 30 is the new 20 allows us to justify all of our "I'll do that tomorrow," "When we have more money," "I'm just looking for Mr. Right Now," "Babies can wait," even, "Careers can wait." This idea that because 30 is the new 20 we can brush off the richness of responsibility that comes along with this decade, or any decade, of our lives is a troublesome message we feed ourselves. And really, we're only creating static within our own lives by not living on purpose!

Yes, things happen later in life - babies, work, marriage, but why let these days go fleeting by without true purpose? As Meg says this is our developmental sweet spot! Y'all, let's dig into this sweet spot!


Our timeline as modern women has expanded, there's no doubt. The thing of it is, no matter what age you are, if you're not living with intention, mission and love you're trivializing the purpose He's provided in your story.

Tips to Make the Most of Your Years (20-something or not):

Get identity capital: Do something that adds value to who you are, and is an investment to who you want to be. 

Take advantage of your weak ties: As Meg says, half of new jobs are not posted. You're not going to find that job online, not even in the 21st century. It's still about getting yourself out there with face-to-face networking. 

The time to start picking your family is now: This pertains to your partner, your choice of friends and loved ones. You should be as intentional with love as you are with work. Amen.

30 is not the new 20.
Claim your adulthood, get some identity capital, use your weak ties, pick your family.  
Don't be defined by what you didn't know or didn't do, you're deciding your life right now.
-Meg Jay


Monday, June 9, 2014

Life Created Tuesdays Link Party Announcement

Hey party people! Thanks for stopping by to check in on this week's party!

We began Life Created Tuesdays in August 2013 following our BlogHer experience. Each of us felt the need to pool together our blogging community for a little something more each week. The end result was this party to encourage one another in living a life created in the every day moments. We hope that's what you've found here over the last 9 months.

As the summer season is upon us, Sarah and I have decided to hang up our Life Created hats and enjoy a bit of a Summer break. 

In case you didn't know, Sarah is just weeks away from welcoming her second baby! To add to the excitement of many baby snuggles ahead, she'll be closing on a new house in just a week! This lady is going to have her hands full this Summer so be sure to follow Sarah's happenings on InstaGram @itsavol!


And while Sarah will be soaking in newborn yumminess, I'll be revving up the launch of my paper and design shop. It's no coincidence this party is called Life Created, I truly believe in living your life created just as you wish it to be. No one is going to do it for you, so get out their and create it for yourself! I can't wait to share with y'all the beautiful paper products I've been working on!

Join me here as I continue to dig deep for the mission of my new venture, and as usual you can find me on InstaGram @theviewfrom510 :)

We'll be back with Life Created Tuesdays better than ever in the Fall. I'd love for you to drop a comment below to let us know what changes you'd like to see when we we bring back the party next season!

Happy Tuesdays, y'all. Go out there and create something!


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Friday, June 6, 2014

Faulire Will Get You Further Than Fear. - Lara Casey

As mentioned last week, I had the opportunity to join a small group of people in my city at a wedding venue to hear Lara Casey speak on branding. Though, what we heard last Wednesday was much more than a speech on branding, it was a night full of shared wisdom and encouragement.

Sometimes life just falls into place with ideal timing, and Lara arriving in my city that week was just what my heart needed. Just a day before her event, my first set of PowerSheets arrived ready for me to pour out my heart. For those who may not know, PowerSheets are a bundle that "help you strategically plan action steps to make what matters happen." There's no better way to put it, find more details in Lara's Shop.

You see, I began this year with something stirring in my heart and as such my word of the year is "intentional." Through reflection and action steps, I mapped out goals for the year and committed to opening myself to wherever He may lead me.

That bit of soul stirring back in January has lead to a full on spark to make what matters to me happen. I am the person who always says when we have more time, or more money or more help, or that it's not part of the plan.

Y'all, this is my fear talking. My fear of failure, my fear of success, my fear of change. Flat of fear ruling my days, and as we know those days so quickly turn into years. 
failure will get you further than fear #laracasey
What He's leading me to this year is out of my comfort zone. But as Lara said, you didn't come here to stay the same right? This question spills into our every single day. So often we are seek out ways to improve or grow ourselves, but are we following up with executed action steps?

The act of failing at something will ultimately lead you one step closer to your core, to your mission and to making what really matters happen. Whatever fear that's rooted in your heart, I encourage you to face it.

Today, and well almost every day in the last two weeks, I have done something that I feared. From big things like mapping out my legitimate small business plan to calling printers for quotes to smaller fears like reaching out to other entrepreneurs for advice - I'm set on choosing my faith over fear.

Launch work that matters Seth Godin
I am working to launch a company rooted in Southern sweetness and scripture to celebrate and encourage the hearts and homes of others. Putting together business plans and spreadsheets and marketing is a bit daunting, but the bigger mission of sharing this core matters to me and I'm going to make it happen. I am going to choose those failures over fear and I'm going to follow up my goals with action steps.

What about you? Have you let that idea of perfect acceptance go? One step at a time my friends, we can do this!
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Sunday, June 1, 2014

Let me be singing when the evening comes. #lampandlight

When May began, I joined Kristin in her 31 Days of Scripture Challenge. I'd originally planned to read through the book of Pslams, but have honestly only made it to around chapter 30. The thing of it is, just like many of my plans, I'm quickly reminded that I'm living His plan - how easily we forget that in the bustle of every day life.

I woke a few weeks ago humming the tune to the song our church service closed with that Sunday. That I day I woke singing? It was brighter, somehow more optimistic than the others. The idea of waking literally singing His praise wedged its way deep into my heart for a few days before I took action.

When I sat at my desk the next Monday, opened the Pandora app and rather than jump to "Country's Top Hits" I searched for Hillsong United. Wouldn't you know, they have their own Pandora station. What followed was a month of praise filling the four walls of my office. That music moved from my office to the car and the car to my quiet time at home.

Early on in reading the Psalms a yearning to be a better worshipper, a worshipper like David, was planted in my heart. This small act of changing the music playing in the white noise of my days has morphed my heart in just 31 days. 



The difference hasn't just been seen in my tune. Even Jackson has caught onto the music over the last couple weeks. His sweet voiced asked from the backseat last week if we were listening to church music. I hesitantly told him yes, hoping he wouldn't shoot down my morning glory time.

To my surprise he said "I love church music, mom, turn it up." Not two minutes later he's back there belting out "my heart will sing no other name, Jesus."

Y'all, my heart could have exploded in that moment! Talk about swimming in grace. One of the greatest goals I have as a mother is to raise a son who walks with Christ. That's no small goal, friends. This is something I pray over every day and in moments like this receive affirmation that we're walking the good walk. Even in tantrum filled days, new preschool transitions, and threenager tendencies, my boy is still seeking Christ along side me. Thanks be to God.

Did you participate in the 31 Day Scripture Challenge? I'd love to hear how your month went!

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Friday, May 30, 2014

This & That On Friday

This: 

Seeing Jackson's sheer joy in arriving at the beach last weekend was magic. Our Memorial Day Weekend at the beach was by far more successful than last year. Jackson was spoiled by having both grandmothers join us. And, while no weekend with a 3-year-old is drama free, we had an overall great time. More photos to come once I can sneak away with my mom's camera card :)

That:

I met Lara Casey this week! Insert every happy emoji ever! I first found Lara through InstaGram (of course) and she is continually someone who inspires me to be a better mom, wife, believer and entrepreneur. When I saw Lara was going to be in my city speaking at an small(er) event, I grabbed two tickets for me and the Hubs.


This:

This comment Lara made has resonated with me over the last 48 hours. You see, I've been keeping a secret from y'all...I'm working on launching a paper shop featuring prints and invitations. And well, I'm jumping out of my comfort zone left and right lately, but I know that this is what He has placed on my heart. There is so, so much more to share with y'all on this topic, but I'm saving it for another day :)

Today, I just want to encourage you to get out there and DO whatever it is that is being controlled by your fear. That big, looming item on your checklist, bucket list, goal list, whatever it may be is not bigger than His plan for you. Stop letting that fear control you. It will be liberating, I promise.

That:

Jackson Has officially moved from daycare to preschool. Cue the mama tears. The photo on the left is his first day of daycare at 10 weeks and on the right, his last day at 3 years and 2 months. He's made the move from his daycare of two years to his new pre-school better than I could've asked for. I can't lie, I was worried about this move. Heck, I'm just plain not good with change. Thankfully, Jackson is the social butterfly I always suspected he'd be.

He'll be in the 3-K Summer Program class through August and we'll move into his official first day of 3-K after summer. How this kid has grown blows my mind, and I pray that his little heart and mind will thrive in his new environment!

This:

I have plans of strawberry patches, our first weekend at the pool and maybe even a movie in the park tonight. I can feel the sweet spirit of Summer upon us and I'm excited to live out that excitement with Jackson.

Hop over to InstaGram to follow along for the little moments like these (that typically get recapped here)!

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